At Granite State Home Educators, we’ve always believed that strong communities—not expensive programs—are at the core of meaningful home education. One of our longtime leaders, Amanda Weeden, recently shared reflections on what it takes to build genuine, lasting connections among homeschooling families. Shared with permission, her words and experiences remind us of what matters most.
People are craving connection.
Not costly programs.
Not curated content.
Not another drop-off day.
What they need is real, grassroots, relationship-driven community.
The culture around homeschooling has shifted—especially with the growth of Education Freedom Accounts. And while we’re thrilled more families are exploring their options, we’ve also seen a growing demand for plug-and-play solutions over people-focused gatherings.
But here’s the truth: authentic community still matters. It always will.
Co-ops: From Cooperative to Commercialized
“Co-op” used to mean cooperative—families teaming up to create meaningful learning and social experiences for their kids. Over time, that term has shifted. With more funding options and demand for structured alternatives, many “co-ops” now resemble private microschools.
But the original model still exists—and still thrives. These low-cost, family-led groups often form quietly, built through friendship, word of mouth, and mutual effort. They’re not flashy. They’re not always advertised. But they are deeply fulfilling and completely aligned with the core of independent home education.
Connection Takes Effort—But It’s Worth It
Creating a supportive community doesn’t require a five-day-a-week program, a big budget, or professional educators. It simply takes initiative and a willingness to show up for one another.
Some families organize regular meetups. Others take turns leading hands-on learning at each other’s homes. Some coordinate book clubs, movie nights, park days, or field trips. They may meet in people’s homes, local libraries, or community centers. What they all have in common is this: they make it work—together.
You don’t have to do it all. Teach a subject you love. Trade roles with another parent. Watch younger siblings while someone else leads a science activity. Bring snacks or show up with a helping hand. Every contribution counts.
A Personal Story: What Real Community Looks Like
I run a small co-op with a few close friends. It took hours of phone calls and follow-up to secure a space. I built relationships with a local church that generously hosts us—for free. We don’t charge families to participate. We share responsibilities, supplies, and support.
We are single moms, two-income families, grandparents, night shift workers, and everything in between. We pray together, laugh together, and yes, sometimes cry together.
If someone shows up with nothing but the energy to be present—we welcome them. If someone’s kid has a rough day—we understand. If someone has extra food, clothes, or curriculum—they share it.
That’s community. No price tag. Just people showing up for each other.
This kind of group may not be the loudest voice in the homeschool world right now—but it’s one of the most valuable.
Want This Kind of Community? Build It.
If what you’re reading sounds like what you’ve been searching for, don’t wait for someone else to create it. Start it.
This used to be the norm—now it’s the exception. But with a little effort and heart, you can build the group that your family (and others) need.
A few years ago, we did an online talk with two awesome moms who created a long-running family-based learning co-op that was very successful. In our discussion, they shared their tips and encouragement for how other families can do the same.
At GSHE, we provide free support, resources, and connection opportunities to help you succeed. Our community forums and 5,000-member Facebook group are great places to start finding others who share your vision.
You don’t need to spend thousands. You don’t need a polished website or a business plan.
You just need a purpose—and a few willing families.
We believe in you. And we’re here to help.
